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Study Guide Answers

1.     Codependency is the addiction to ________________________________________________.
     someone else's problems
2.     When was the word "codependent" coined to serve as a description for someone who lives with an alcoholic ?
     in the 1970s
3.     Codependency generally has its origins in _____________________.
     childhood
4.     What are four behaviors that are common in dysfunctional households?
     a) verbal or physical abuse (b) selfish, embarrassing, or irresponsible behavior (c) unpredictable moods (d) broken promises
5.     Children whose needs are not met by their parents often grow up to be codependents. True or false?
     true
6.     The "good child" hopes to ____________________________________________________.
     take the spotlight off the central problem and eventually bring about the recovery of the troubled parent
7.     The "bad child" gets attention in the family by __________________________________________.
     being a troublemaker
8.     The "sensitive child" is usually the [ youngest/ oldest] child
     youngest
9.     The "passive child" is _____________________ to the point of almost total _________________.
     self-effacing/ withdrawal
10.     A(n) ______________________ thinks that he or she can "fix" another person's problems.
     codependent-enabler
11.     Codependents believe themselves to be totally ___________________ and devoted.
     unselfish
12.     "Enablers" like to "smooth things over" for the addict. True or false?
     true
13.     "Enablers" made it [ easier/ harder ] for the addict to continue his or her self-destructive behavior.
     easier
14.     Codependents tend to fall in love with people whom they believe can be _________________.
     rescued
15.     A codependent will deliberately look for someone whose life he or she can _________________.
     manage
16.     ________________________________is the primary goal of a codependent.
     Making someone else happy
17.     Codependents give to others to the point of ________________________________.
     self-sacrifice
18.     Codependents discount their own desires as being ___________________________.
     unimportant
19.     Codependents often fall in love with people who lack __________________________________.
     the capacity to love
20.     Codependents learn to associate love with __________________________________________.
     pain and disappointment
21.     Codependents never put up with certain behaviors once they say that they will never tolerate them. True or false?
     false
22.     A codependent often feels ________________________ at the thought of having sex with the addict in his or her life.
     revulsion
23.     Codependents fear abandonment. True or false?
     true
24.     Codependents hope that problems will simply ___________________________.
     go away
25.     The codependent _____________________himself or herself whenever something goes wrong.
     blames
26.     A codependent may develop an addiction or a compulsion of some sort because of severe psychological pain. True or false?
     true
27.     Eventually, a codependent may devise a plan to _____________________.
     escape
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